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My psychiatrist encouraged me to go on POF because it was free, and a cast of millions.

I just couldn’t get it right, even after trying 3-4 times.

It’s their way of testing boundaries to see if you’ll cave in. I was looking to talk to 30-40 year old, and he was 41 but I did not want to be rude and say no. I seen some of his stuff and this so sounds like him check ou the bust a cheaters website his ex and others have bene posting on him. – Both porn addicts, one into photoshopped still images of women who were beyond out of his league, the other into some disgusting daddy dom crap where he liked pictures of women sucking on lolipops saying things like “practicing for daddy.” – Both compulsive and chronic liars, omg, lying about literally everything just to keep extending the ride.

Within a year I read his answers to some question(I know I should have read them much earlier lol) because some of our values were the complete opposite. He is on so many dating sites like Tinder, POF and OKcupid, Craigslist personals, idating and so many others. They pretended to be into things I was into, pretended to agree with me even though my intuition caught that they were pretending.

They will set up a certain image for themselves in a dating profile and then try to lure you in by letting you think theres a lot more than there is to them and then making you think you have so much in common — the covert maggoty ones anyway. pedestal; too cool for everyone, oh but you, you are lucky enough to have him, eh?

Reply I am sorry that you went through this, particularly in the wake of a break up.

People often tell me that I am very attractive, well this horrible man told me that I’m so physically flawed no other man in the world could want me. They get some kid of fix from winning in video games that they can’t get irl because they are too lowly.When in my early 30’s I did newspaper ads, then after a while starting in my late 30’s, I did the online thing, one of my first was ok cupid…I met someone there in my early 40’s who turned out to be a narcissistic weirdo who only wanted one thing, and it wasnt a committed relationship (at least with me), unfortunately, it took me a while to get over that emotional obsession, by the time I did, it was really too late for me -nature had taken away my ability to have children…I have had 100% bad stuff from every online dating service I joined and that has been over a dozen and the men there…from being stood up, to meeting psychos who boldly put up pictures that were not them or from 20 yrs prior, to being abused verbally or emotionally, to being lied, to promises of love that never happened, to being coaxed to give of myself just to be taken advantage of…You can see, I don’t need an article to keep me away, but keep spreading the word, so others might know. I asked what was the day’s weather like in Santa Ana, he gave me Raleigh’s NC weather, like 20 degrees hotter than CA. I know there are out there vulnerable people that can fell for people like this guy… I’ve been dipping my toes in the water, but the idea of dating really scares the crap out of me!Reply I messaged with this guy from Santa Ana, CA on OKC. He “grew up” in South Africa (That’s a big red flag) overseas people always end up asking for money. My point is; if someone approaches you mentioning south Africa, the UK, a military career, most likely it’s a scam. Those were only the ones in person and I at one time close to 100 messages from different people on the site that red flags were so bad I did not even respond to the message. I have been trying out Bumble which gives women all the power, so that one feels the safest so far. Sure, you can anticipate some level of flack – that’s what it is, right or wrong, to be female on the internet. They wanted some kind of “relationship” with a girl without putting any work into it. In the real world, there is always an effort – at the very least, to be civil.I accept that it will take time to get over (in this case) my BPD lover. \ Until then, I am grateful for my health, my friendships, my sobriety, and for my accomplishments. Reply Hi Kim – Your work helped me recover from a love affair with someone who had textbook NPD, Thank You! While recovering from NPD boyfriend, I did use POF and OKC, looking specifically for buddies with similar interests.Three years later I’m off the sites because I’ve found real love, but a few of my current best friends are men I met on these sites.

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