And perhaps our unfinished wounding might keep us from starting the dating process again.
Don’t miss the exciting conclusion of this single dad’s journey: A Dad In Love, Again(I’ve got two kids and a full-time job, but I’d still like to find time to be with someone.)1. I will admit that getting back out there, for me, as a man, initially was about sex.
It can blur your vision when trying to figure out if you want to hang with this person for the long run.2. (I’d like to keep getting fitter, but my joy is genuine.) In several previous online dates I found myself sitting across the table from very attractive, usually younger, women who had nearly nothing in common with me. The Spark Is Only a Start If the chemistry (tail wag) is ON, there are still a ton of steps along the path before we’re in a relationship. (If I’m a reader and you’re a reality tv junkie, we might not go the distance.) We need to synchronize our schedules over time. If we do decide to sleep together I want to know that we’ve just become mutually exclusive.Don’t rush into moving in together or getting engaged.Instead, take it slow and focus on developing trust before you take your relationship to the next level.Today, I think sex can get in the way of learning if you like the person.And if you’re going to do more than lay around in bed with this person, you’d might want to go easy on the seduction moves at first.