So if you identify with these traits, it doesn’t mean men see them as a negative thing, and it likely won’t be the reason he doesn’t ask you out. It seems to me it would be more helpful to remind our friend that she is awesome and she is going to meet a guy who is the right match.If we are trying to communicate to our friend that she is, in fact, intimidating, do it in a tangible way.We women have our ideas about what men find intimidating, but what do men say they find intimidating and do they see that as a good thing?I asked six men what qualities they found intimidating in women and here is what they said.
There are over 2 million more women in college today than men.”I asked Dr.But, your intimidation factor could also just be a serious a reflection of his lack of embracing societal changes for women. Guys don't mince words when it comes to attributes they find intimidating, and what I learned from them is that intimidation isn’t always perceived as a bad thing.There is a wide range of opinion among the men I spoke to. When talking to the guys, things like height and perception of physical strength were listed as qualities men could be intimidated by, if they felt she was better or even equally endowed in these areas.Mike says that he feels like women who are the “the total package” can be intimidating.“When girls are cool, smart, good looking, AND have a good personality” he says it’s much harder to go for it.