I’ve experienced those gut-twisting feelings, the ones the leave you with a constant sense of impending doom in the pit of your stomach causing you to question everything, including yourself. I mean, there is a lot at stake when you put your heart on the line and you can end up wasting months, or years, of your life on a man who never intended to keep you around for the long haul.
With regards to knowing if he’s really serious about having a relationship with you, what can we do to spare ourselves the time, energy, and heartbreak that goes into determining how a man feels?
MORE: Why Guys Disappear and How to Deal This seems like an obvious one, but unfortunately, it’s not!the telltale sign that he’s all in, he’s committed. Maybe you don’t meet them right away, but he should give you come sort of indication that it’s on the horizon.At the very least, he should let you know that his family is aware of your existence.MORE: Biggest Signs He’s Never Going to Settle Down With You If he takes vacations from the relationship with no warning it means he isn’t worried about losing you, and this is never a good sign.If a guy knows for certain that you’ll always be there waiting in the wings, no matter how badly he behaves, he won’t respect you and he definitely won’t want to commit to you–why should he when he knows he doesn’t have to? His disappearing acts serve more as a way to let you know this relationship isn’t serious and he is still free to do what he wants.